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Mark Manson

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Mark Manson

How to Survive a Long Distance RelationshipJune 2020 · Updated February 2023

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“That’s why when making any long-distance relationship work, it’s crucial to always have some date that you are both looking forward to. Usually, this will be the next time you are both able to see each other. But it can also be other major life moments—applying for jobs in the other person’s city, looking at apartments where you could both be happy, a vacation together, perhaps.”
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Gone for a latte.

Charlie Huntington

Research-backed tips for making a long-distance relationship work | Psyche GuidesMarch 2025 · Updated August 2026

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“Whether your relationship seems destined from the start to involve long distance, or life circumstances cause it to happen, it can be intimidating or anxiety-provoking to think about making an LDR work. If you’re contemplating an LDR, and even if you’re already in one, you might worry about feeling disconnected, resenting the distance between you and your partner, or being romantically or sexually drawn toward other people in their absence.”
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Melanie Sivley

Melanie Sivley

Long Distance RelationshipsMay 2023

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“It requires trust, patience, honesty, connecting in different ways, but most importantly, being a person and having a life outside of your significant other. One thing I have found is that long distance requires you to have your own interests and be your own person, achieving your own goals, while having someone you love far away doing the same.”
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Dr. Jessica Higgins

Dr. Jessica Higgins

ERP 082: How To Survive A Long-Distance Relationship - Jessica HigginsOctober 2016 · Updated January 2025

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“Long distance relationships are tricky. Partners have to endure the discomfort and pain of not being in each other physical presence, missing out on being together, holding each other, and sleeping together. Many people avoid or refuse to engage in long-distance relationships as it is not for the faint of heart.”
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Alyson Haley

Alyson Haley

16 Tips That Helped Us Survive Our Long-Distance Relationship | Alyson HaleyApril 2020 · Updated April 2024

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“While it’s tough to be away from someone you feel drawn to and love deeply, see the distance and the time you spend apart as an opportunity to strengthen your relationship in a way not many traditional couples are able to. For me, the time I spent apart from John made me appreciate the time we get to spend together now so much more.”
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Christina Pérez

Christina Pérez

The Secret to Making Long-Distance Relationships WorkSeen August 2026

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“This is because the qualities required to sustain a long-distance relationship are the same ones that are essential for any relationship to thrive: effective communication, trust, honesty, compromise, compatibility, commitment, respect, and a shared vision or trajectory. If you don’t have these, your relationship is likely to fail—whether you live in the same city or not.”
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Sarah Bence

Sarah Bence

Starting a Long Distance Relationship: The Ultimate GuideSeen August 2026

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“After multiple years of an international long distance relationship, I am an expert on the subject. Starting a long distance relationship is hard as hell, but in my opinion, totally worth it (I’m marrying my long distance partner so… I’ve got to say that, haha!).”
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Hannah Smothers

Hannah Smothers

9 Things You Should Know Before Embarking on a Long-Distance RelationshipSeen August 2026

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“But while long-distance isn’t exactly ideal, if it’s temporary and there’s a clear end-goal in sight, it doesn’t necessarily have to be an immediate deal breaker either. And luckily, there are some practical ways to make LDRs suck a whole lot less if you find yourself in one.”
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Adam Lodolce

Adam Lodolce

How To Get Over A Long Term Relationship: 12 Powerful StepsSeen August 2026

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“The truth is, you’re going to want to do anything to push a button to get over your long-term relationship and skip through this stage, but if you don’t feel your sadness and let it move through you, it will continue to linger and grow until you face it. Accept that your relationship ended.”
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Matthew W. Hoelscher

Matthew W. Hoelscher

10 common problems every long marriage facesSeen August 2026

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“Emotional driftYou know the operation of each other's life but not the interior. It happens to almost every couple by year six or seven. It's fixable, but only if you name it. You know the operation of each other's life but not the interior. It happens to almost every couple by year six or seven.”
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Gone for an Americano.

Chantelle Pattemore

Steps to Having a Loving Relationship When You Don't Know HowSeen August 2026

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“When love is present in a relationship it consists of affection, care, and respect for another person. Different connections occur within relationships, too — from platonic and sexual to emotional and spiritual. Essentially, “a loving relationship is any relationship — friendship, romance, or family connection — where kindness, compassion, and genuine affection are at work,” explains Dr.”
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Analise Bruno

Analise Bruno

Ask Abby (or Analise): Should we all be dating to marry?Seen August 2026

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“What I’m saying is this: don’t think that any person you share a little bit of romance or physical intimacy with is the one you have to marry. Love is so much more than getting physical. You’re probably thinking to yourself: if I have had multiple partners, people are certainly going to judge me, right?”
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Neena Gaynor

Neena Gaynor

Love Advice from a Romance Author - Grace MarriageSeen August 2026

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“No, better yet, every story is a love story. Be it love lost, love found, friendship love, familiar love, enduring love, obsessive love, self-love, or selfless love, every story may be summed up by some sort of love. Many believe we overuse the word “love” in America, that we are too quick to say such a significant word for inconsequential circumstances or desires.”
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TyaCamellia Stone, LMFT

TyaCamellia Stone, LMFT

8 Questions to Ask Yourself Before Getting Close to Someone — Roots Relational TherapySeen August 2026

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Emotional maturity is necessary to have a positive, close connection with someone. Here are a few questions to assess how emotionally mature a person is: Is this person capable of accurate self awareness? Is this person capable of dealing with reality on its own terms?”
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David Kellner

David Kellner

Common relationship issues & how to help improve them - Solace Family Counseling - Annapolis, MarylandSeen August 2026

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“These relationship issues can cause feelings of frustration, confusion, anger, or even isolation. However, understanding the common relationship issues people face can help you address them early before they escalate. Communication is the cornerstone of any healthy relationship. But it’s also one of the most common relationship issues that individuals, couples, and families face.”
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Sally Clarkson

Sally Clarkson

The Importance Of Building Close Relationships — SallyClarkson.comSeen August 2026

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“In taking time to build close relationships, we learn that people are more important than things or material possessions. We come to understand that close relationships, not status or accomplishment or virtual realities, are what bring happiness and meaning to life. Our lives become what we live and model, and when we invest personally in the lives of others, we will reap personally in terms of friendship and affection.”
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Dr. Mike

Dr. Mike

5 Ways to Create Closeness in Your RelationshipSeen August 2026

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“In this post, I will share some specific strategies intended to increase and maintain closeness in your intimate relationships. These are strategies you’ll want to utilize on a consistent basis for them to be effective. Incorporating such strategies on an inconsistent basis can lead to confusion and make it less likely that your efforts to build closeness will be received in the spirit in which you are giving.”
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Ryan Frederick

Ryan Frederick

5 Important Considerations When Dating To Marry - Fierce MarriageSeen August 2026

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“While dating, you must both understand the non-negotiables in your relationship and agree on them. The list is actually quite short in my opinion: faith. In your marriage, no one thing will impact your relationship more than your belief in who Christ is, what he’s done, and who you are as a result. If you disagree on faith, you will disagree on most important things.”
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Sharon Pope

Sharon Pope

The Mature Marriage: Five Signs of a Marriage in Trouble - Sharon PopeSeen August 2026

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“When your mature marriage isn’t feeling as good as it used to and you’re trying to determine if it’s a marriage in trouble or a simple struggle that will soon pass, here’s how you can know the difference: I Love Him, but I’m Not in Love with Him. This is a common phrase that is used after being together for a long time, but there’s some truth to it.”
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Gone for a latte.

Sav & Greg

Fun Things For Couples In Denver: Date Ideas You'll LoveSeen August 2026

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“Stroll through the beautiful Denver Botanic Gardens, where lush landscapes and seasonal blooms create the perfect setting for a romantic outing. Explore the peaceful gardens and enjoy the vibrant displays that change with the seasons—ideal for photos or a quiet moment together. Denver’s proximity to incredible trails makes hiking a go-to date idea.”
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